We like others to change, but take very little effort to change ourselves.Why change my self? So that I can tolerate others? No. Not at all. I change because the battle is always an internal one.
The world, which is seemingly outside, is not actually outside. World is what we perceive in our minds what it is. I go down the memory lane, 10 years back, and another 10 years – the things most important to me had changed. All dependent on my experience, of what I make out of what was presented to me.
So, the change must always come from with in to make things better. We are capable of change, but we have become ‘OK’ to go with the flow.